I am beyond frustrated with how my husband always tells me what I want to hear then does the complete opposite in reality, when dealing with his x-wife.
A little back story, we have custody and have since day one of me being in the picture. I have been mom since they were in diapers (over 13+ years now) she is a POS and does absolutely NOTHING for the kids, except see them for visitation if it is convenient for her on the every other weekend schedule.
Every time she can’t do something or needs a “favor” I insist we stick to the paperwork and not accommodate her, she thinks the world revolves around her, she knows when she is supposed to have her kids, she doesn’t want them and I am more than happy to have them here with us and he agrees. She will call my husband and asked to rearrange everything for it to work for her and he will agree, he won’t say anything about the conversation we had and her needing to realize we have a life also and doesn’t even ask if we had something planned. He just caters to her all the fucking time.
I say something in reference to what we talk about and he says, grow the hell up, who give a shit if they go on a different weekend and I don’t believe you are a part of this…hum..OK, I am raising these kids and am just as much a part as he is.
I’m exhausted and tired of doing and doing and doing, not being included in the family WE have together and my voice or emotions not taken into consideration ever.. it is exhausting doing everything, then pretty much being told to shut up. I am not only fuckin livid as hell he’s so nice to her and worries about her feelings but not mine to look like the cool parent, but also so hurt that nothing I do or say is EVER taken into consideration.
I didn’t birth my boys, but anyone can be a hoe get knocked up and spit out a kid.. it is me who stepped in to be a mom.
Sorry for the bad language..I am so mad.