If I hear you’ll meet someone soon, you’re so lovely, I can’t believe someone hasn’t snapped you up yet, why oh why are you single, I think I will have to scream out loud. I’m single by choice, that’s right, choice. After a few disasterous relationships I am taking time out for me and my kids.
My father asked me recently, what would I consider the best times in my life and this really got me thinking. Aside from my childhood, which was amazing, and obviously the birth of my kids, the best times in my life have always been when I’m single, even as a single parent I mean. I have no one to answer to or please. I can take care of my kids my way, in our happy little home. I don’t have to worry about mood swings of my partner, emotional abuse, heartache or whether they are cheating on me. I can put my kids at number one and live a relatively stress free life! I have a nice circle of friends, I’m happy in my own company and I love my kids! Life is good.
I’m not saying I’m giving up totally on love, I’m just putting it on hold for a bit and putting myself and my kids first. So please stop assuming that I am lonely or that there must be something wrong with me and I can’t find anyone to love me. I’m fine thanks, are you?