|So, I recently ended my first relationship since I became a single mum. I will admit I was single for nearly 5years…but I was fine.|
I met a guy and he was nice, he loved the mountains and rock music and I thought, he is the one! He wasn’t the one, he liked looking and naming mountains not walking them and had Metallica, Nickelback and Ozzy on repeat in his car.
So, 18 months later and I’m single again, ..worse a single mother!
Why is my parenting part of my relationship status? I’m a mum yes, I’m
single yes but sure why do they need to be paired?
At a recent family event word got out ‘she’s single again’ followed by the
Inevitable, ‘poor kid will never know what it’s like to have a family’ ‘no
brothers or sisters for your little one then’.
I’m not just fine at being single, I’m doing it out of choice and I’m happy! I would love to be in love but it hasn’t happened and until I actually fall
head over heels in love I won’t settle.
Also, I have no intention of making a big sister out of my daughter,
married/single/trio no more babies for me.
Lastly, she has a family. She has me and her dad who love her with our whole hearts we don’t need to share a house to be a family.
Thanks for the vent, from a single lady and a mum and a sister and a best friend and a tax payer and a fish owner. Xxx