My husband is a good man. After we got married, his job became more stressful, my life changed, and he started taking his stress out on me.
I know I’m not perfect. But when he gets stressed he can talk to me really crappy for days. It hurts my feelings, stresses our marriage, and surely affects our kids. It’s not constant, but enough that I wish I had seen this behavior before we got married so we could have either addressed it, or decided to not get married.