I’m sick of relatives on my mother’s side of the family that care only when it’s none of their business…. are they ever even concerned about me, or my well being otherwise? A resounding NO! I’m not naïve…. I detect, whenever I speak to the matriarch (my mom’s older sister, age 86) that I have been a topic in their discussions, per what she says to me. I am alone, my dad’s family all in various parts of Arkansas. I am not well and I am still dealing with the loss of my mom (I was her caregiver for 3.5 yrs, after having been with her, as she aged in place). Unless you’ve been in my shoes, or any caregivers shoes, in regards to them taking care of a parent with dementia, don’t judge!! The 86yo aunt had the audacity to suggest that I had Munchausen by proxy. And of course, one of her minions, oh excuse me, sons, took her side. I challenged them both to speak with my mother’s internal medicine geriatric care doctor. Was tired of their ******** then, and still tired of it now!!