Too all those people who like to tell of the woes of having kids, how tired they are, how you can’t know tiredness till you have kids, how you have no idea until you have kids, how difficult it is to plan, how expensive schools are, how expensive kids toys/clothes/food/childcare is, how you must be excused from cancelling last minute blah blah.
You had em! It was your choice! Some of you even had more than one!
Stop whinging and just get on with it!
Single, by choice.